Why at Home?

As cremation rates continue to rise in the United States, more families are choosing to honor their loved ones in personalized, non-traditional ways rather than relying on cemeteries, columbaria, or ossuaries. With nearly 61% of Americans opting for cremation in 2023 (according to the NFDA)—a number projected to reach nearly 80% by 2040—the demand for meaningful, flexible, and eco-conscious memorial options has never been greater. However, as cremation becomes the dominant choice, many families face a difficult question:

“Where should my loved one’s cremated remains rest?”

Millions Are Bringing Loved Ones Home — But Then What?

While many families choose to bring cremated remains home, too often these urns are left on mantels, stored in closets, or forgotten over time. Families hold onto cremated remains because they feel emotionally connected to the deceased but then often struggle with how to create a permanent, dignified resting place. Without a clear plan, ashes are frequently passed down to relatives who may have never even known the deceased, left in storage for generations, or even abandoned at funeral homes and cemeteries across the country.

This raises an important question:

How can we create a proper memorial that honors our loved ones and keeps them from being forgotten?

How Traditional Options Limit Families

Many families turn to cemeteries, church columbaria, or other memorial placements without fully understanding the restrictions, regulations, and costs that come with them. While these traditional options have long been the norm, they often come with unexpected limitations that can impact a family’s ability to create a truly personal and meaningful tribute.

For those opting for ground burial of cremated remains, many public cemeteries require urn vaults to prevent ground shifting and heaving, adding extra expenses to the process. Cemeteries also impose strict regulations on headstones, markers, and decorations to maintain a uniform appearance — limiting personal expression. Additionally, floral and decorative tributes are often removed without notice due to maintenance policies, leaving families frustrated when their memorials disappear. Beyond these restrictions, the financial burden can be significant, with ground burial often exceeding $5,000 — a cost separate from cremation itself, which in 2024 averaged $2,000 for direct cremation and just over $6,000 for cremation with services, according to the Cremation Institute. For many families, these costs make traditional cemetery placement an unaffordable option, leading them to bring their loved one’s ashes home as a more practical and cost-conscious alternative.

For families considering columbaria, whether at a cemetery or church, personalization is often extremely limited. Niches come in standardized sizes with restrictions on engraving, urn dimensions, and decor. The cost of purchasing a single niche can vary widely, ranging from $1,000 to $10,000, depending on location and level within the structure. Furthermore, visitation can be restricted, as columbaria are often locked behind gates with designated visiting hours, making it difficult to visit loved ones freely.

Ossuaries and scattering provide another alternative but offer no real individual memorialization. In an ossuary, remains are mixed into a communal space with either a small plaque on a wall or no marker at all, making it difficult for families to feel a deep, personal connection. Similarly, scattering is a permanent decision — once ashes are released, there is no way to retrieve them, which can lead to regret for families who later wish they had chosen a more defined memorial space.

Changing Funeral Trends & Society’s Shift Toward New Memorial Options

As cremation continues to rise, the demand for alternative memorial solutions has never been greater. Cremation is not just a passing trend — it is both the present and the future of end-of-life care. With the U.S. cremation rate expected to surpass 80% by 2040, there seems to be a growing preference for flexible and non-traditional options. Several states—including Nevada and Washington—have already surpassed the 80% mark, with the national average currently hovering around 60%.

At the same time, public sentiment toward funeral homes and traditional services is shifting. Many families feel pressured by funeral industry standards and are actively seeking more control over their loved one’s memorial. Instead of being told what is required, people want the freedom of choosing how to honor their loved ones in a way that feels authentic and meaningful to them.

Another major factor influencing this shift is the growing demand for green and sustainable choices. The environmental impact of embalming chemicals, metal and concrete burial vaults, and large-scale cemeteries has led many to rethink traditional burial in favor of eco-friendly alternatives like cremation. As people become more conscious of their environmental footprint, they are looking for ways to honor their loved ones without harming the planet.

More than ever, families want unique and deeply personal tributes instead of following outdated traditions. No longer restricted by rigid customs, people are choosing memorials that align with their values, whether that means an at-home resting place, a biodegradable option, or a custom tribute that truly reflects their loved one’s life. As society moves forward, the future of memorialization is about choice, meaning, and honoring loved ones in a way that feels personal and right — not just what has always been done.

A New Way to Honor, A Lasting Tribute

Here at Forever at Home, we are passionate about this very same thing! That is why we have created a solution that gives families the freedom of choosing what is best for them— not what tradition or industry standards dictate. Our revolutionary In-Ground Niche provides the perfect balance of personalization, accessibility, and affordability, eliminating the restrictions and high costs of cemeteries while offering a dignified, beautiful, and lasting tribute that keeps loved ones close. Unlike traditional options, the In-Ground Niche allows for complete freedom of choosing — whether that means personalizing, decorating, or visiting whenever you like, right in the comfort of your own home and property.

For those who have held onto cremated remains of loved ones and pets and are unsure of what to do next or have recently been faced with the death of a loved one but are unsure how to memorialize them, this is an opportunity to create a meaningful, elegant resting place that is both affordable and timeless. Instead of leaving ashes in closets, passing them down for generations, or struggling with expensive placement options, you can create a sacred, peaceful space that truly reflects the love and connection you shared.

In a time when people are moving toward greener, more meaningful, and cost-conscious memorials, our In-Ground Niche is more than just a resting place — it represents the freedom of choosing how to honor a loved one in a way that truly feels right. No rules, no restrictions — just the ability to create a memorial that respects your values, your traditions, and your love.

At Forever at Home, we know that no two lives are the same, and no two memorials should be either. Whether or not you choose our In-Ground Niche, we hope you find a way to honor your loved one in a way that feels meaningful to you. The future of death care is evolving, and we are passionate about helping families understand that there are more choices than ever before — if we are open to seeing them.